05. The Hardest Grace To Give

Grace is hard enough to extend. Even harder when it’s to myself.

…is to myself. Over time, I have tried to figure out the best ways to overcome this but I’m still struggling. Still.

Without fail, it’s like my brain goes into overtime throwing the harshest words (or thoughts) at myself for the simplest mistakes. It’s a daily constant uphill battle. I have all the affirmations, playlists, bible verses, accomplishments to combat my brain but baby I’m mean lol. To people when warranted and to myself unfortunately.

So…I’m learning (as we all are). As mean as I can get when others play in my face is the same tone and delivery I give myself (apparently it’s the only way I’ll listen 🫠). I’m thankful for Porsha on her interview with Angie, because girl shut the freak up.

She ate when she got on Beyoncé internet with this message 🫨

If you also struggle, let’s promise each other that we will tap into our delusion. We will walk into every room like we’re all that and a bag of chips (because you are). You are that girl and just because the world struggles with accepting we walk it like we talk it, does not mean we have to be a crab in that barrel.

I love you sista. Treat yourself better than what you look for in others 🤎

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Author: Danielle

With Love, Danielle is a space for Black women navigating life, love, and literature. From book reviews to money moves to self-care, this is where balance meets becoming. Think of it as your online book club and brunch table rolled into one—always told with love.